Are you getting frustrated with your other half? Do you feel yourselves clashing every god damn day at the minute? Are you close to giving up?
This all comes down to different personality types and YOUR own insecurities.
If you are a mentally strong lover, who knows exactly what you want, and you are trying to make it work with a commitment-phobe, you will clash.
Why?
Whats the solution?
COMMUNICATION. This is vital in every relationship. There is absolutely no point working on anything if there is no communication. So if you feel that they’re are problems with your relationship, or you feel like enough time has passed to take it to the next step, it’s time to sit down and talk things through, and try and work through it.
But, if he/she just refuses to listen, and there are no changes after a conversation is had.. the only other option is to STEP BACK and GTFO, and go be with someone who is worthy of your time and appreciates you and wants EXACTLY without your want, and doesn’t just say it. Actions speak louder than words.
Put yourself first.