Are you getting frustrated with your other half? Do you feel yourselves clashing every god damn day at the minute? Are you close to giving up?

This all comes down to different personality types and YOUR own insecurities.

If you are a mentally strong lover, who knows exactly what you want, and you are trying to make it work with a commitment-phobe, you will clash.


  • They never give you 100%
    They’re all in one day and all out the next. You won’t ever get that full sense of security that you feel you need.
  • They make you feel like you’re going mad when in fact, what you are thinking is probably accurate
    A lot of the time, people use reverse psychology because they know that they are in the wrong, so they flip everything you say to them and make you feel like you are going crazy. 99% of the time, when you think you are right about something, you are..that gut feeling never lies, so take note and listen to it.
  • They box you up into nothing you ever thought you were
    They will make you feel certain emotions you never thought you had, and sides will come out of you that you have never seen yourself!
  • They accuse you of cheating because their urge to cheat comes from their own insecurities after letting their guard down and feeling vulnerable.
  • They’re afraid of their own actions...
    An insecure male/female will find it difficult to talk things through, and instead will act out and do stupid sh*t. They will get so worked up on ‘not feeling good enough’ for you, that they will then just make themselves not good enough for you by doing something stupid

Whats the solution?

COMMUNICATION. This is vital in every relationship. There is absolutely no point working on anything if there is no communication. So if you feel that they’re are problems with your relationship, or you feel like enough time has passed to take it to the next step, it’s time to sit down and talk things through, and try and work through it.

But, if he/she just refuses to listen, and there are no changes after a conversation is had.. the only other option is to STEP BACK and GTFO, and go be with someone who is worthy of your time and appreciates you and wants EXACTLY without your want, and doesn’t just say it. Actions speak louder than words.

Put yourself first.