Are you going through that transition stage of getting older and more independent and not needing your family as much as you used to? Are you find yourself getting mega frustrated when you have conversations with your family about the future?
I’ve been there girl lol.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I would never have got to where I am today without my family’s help and support and I appreciate them SO MUCH. But, the difference is, they have an opinion and yes it’s important to me, but it’s an opinion.
Me and my family both know that i’m going to do what I want to do anyway…even if they don’t necessarily agree with it. The thing with my family is, they trust me that i’m going to be ok, and I ALWAYS am.
I’m not going to lie and say that they’re haven’t been disagreements during the years..but my family have never stopped me doing what I want to do.
Why would your family who love you stop you from being happy? I don’t understand it.
If you are really struggling with your family not listening to you and always thinking they know what’s best, this ones for you.
Next time your parents say something about your future or your decisions, just remember the following:
IT’S YOUR LIFE
When you get to the age of 18, your an adult. Right? So you can decide what you want to do. The choices that you make from now are going to have a massive impact on where you go and what you do for the rest of your life..so if your parents are pushing you to go to university you don’t want to go, then my goodnessm tell them! Otherwise, you will just waste a hell of a lot of time and be in even more debt, when you didn’t even want to go in the first place!
IT’S YOUR DECISIONS
At the end of the day, what you do is up to you. Your parents will guide you
YOUR PARENTS DON’T KNOW WHAT’S BEST FOR YOU
The only person that truly knows who best, is you. A lot of parents think they know and understand what they want, but they don’t always.
Look, i’m not saying to go and rebel and ignore anything they tell you. That is not my advice hahah. Obviously listen to them! What i’m saying is, if they tell you to do something and you don’t want to, just have a conversation with them about it. Your parents aren’t devils, (well I hope not!) so they will respect and listen to you. Just talk to them!
You know what’s best, I promise.